#BeGreat

Greatness.  We all want to be great at something.  Heck, be honest, we want to be great at everything. You know it's true!  Get married and you determine to be the best spouse ever.  The first child comes along and you set out to be the best parent the world has ever seen.  Books will be written about how efficiently and mess free those diapers were changed!  We all set out to be great pet owners with greatly trained pets. The goal is always to have greatly organized closets, filing cabinets and tools. Just the other day, the teacher asked my son who his hero was.  Do you know what he said?  His Mom!  I am happy for her, but I want to be his hero!  I want to be the greatest Dad ever! Applause! Applause!

This yearning for greatness is not a new thing for us humans.  It must be how we're wired.  How many self help books are designed for you to achieve greatness in fitness, finance, love and spirituality to name just a few?  There is always a new formula.  The being great at everything goal usually crashes and burns pretty quickly though. Reality sets in.  So instead of being great at everything, most people settle for being great at one thing, anything, even if it's just remembering to take out the trash.  Unfortunately though, usually we have to settle for only being pretty good at some things and miserable failures at others.  No wonder so many of us are depressed!

Even the disciples wanted to be great so I guess it really is how we're wired.  That's why Jesus taught about it.  He understood this desire for greatness.  After all, he made us so he should know, right?  His solution must have shocked everyone.  Essentially, he said if you really want to be great, then it can't be about you, which seems counter intuitive.  According to Jesus, true greatness comes from how we build up others much more than how we build up ourselves. Jesus said, "...whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be a slave of all.  For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve and to give his life as a ransom for many" (Mark 10:43-44).

Greatness is possible for a few through self promotion, self discipline, self aggrandizing and a little tenacity. This is true, but rare and it is not a greatness that will last.  People are forgetful about great achievements, but they never forget a great friend.  You will be great the greater you are to the people God has put around you. Do you want to be a great Mom or Dad? If so, then serve your kids, love them, spend time with them. Want to be a great husband? If so, then go shopping, watch "The Bachelorette", paint her nails, and yes, talk about your feelings.  Trust me.  It will be great.